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Misha Saul's avatar

Lovely. Well done. And all the best

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Ruxandra Teslo's avatar

Thank you, Misha. You too

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Adam's avatar

whoa, this parenthetical in paragraph one immediately stood out to me:

"and perhaps even worse, we do not have good ways of telling how much it declines for any individual woman"

I hope someone is working on that problem--seems very high-ROI

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Ruxandra Teslo's avatar

I mean there's AMH but it's quite imperfect and by the time you find out you have low AMH it's already kinda bad

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Metacelsus's avatar

Your writing is excellent. And as a fellow cell-sorting guy, long days of sorting can be very tedious. I'm glad you made the most of it!

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Ruxandra Teslo's avatar

haha thank you :)

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Béatrice's avatar

Very nice :)

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Quiet Layer's avatar

I appreciate your articles and hope all can find a path within their fertility journeys. That being said, I can stop but have an odd taste after realising that what we are doing is: normalising that the system penalises woman for having families.

The tech advancements seem like "freedom" but in reality, we are just trading-off having a family when we want to FOR a successful career. Even when accepting and navigating the pay gap.

It is insane that during a record-profit decade, corporations still have an issue providing care for the employees that decide on having a family, even when modern families have, at most, 2 kids per household.

Hope this isn't a negative comment, just thinking outside the box a bit about real solutions.

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Dave Reed's avatar

I hadn't considered before that supporting someone's Substack or Patreon is a bit like a micro grant. 🤔 I hope you continue not stopping. 😉

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Billy Hollander's avatar

Consider that the solution might be teen pregnancy coupled with multi-generational households with grandparents doing much of the childcare while the parents finish school and pursue their careers. It’s a very old fashioned approach and one that honors biology while valuing contributions from the whole age spectrum of the family.

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Stella Tsantekidou's avatar

Love this ❤️

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Thomas L. Hutcheson's avatar

I have felt the same gratitude to Brad DeLong and Rodger Peilke who often "like" my takes on their Substacks, although I never write just praise.

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